Historically, lgbtq folks have found community in bars and we are in transition about that now. Learn spanish but take your holidays on lesbos or in hebden bridge, where you will see half of north london. They are not always out in the workplace, and often need to watch their behavior when they are outside their homes. Learn to love dancing out of time to i will survive, free nelson mandela and i am what i am. It felt natural and not at all scary. What i try to make people understand is that the discovery of a woman’s same gender sexuality has nothing to do with her husband being ‘more than’ or ‘less than’; who and what the woman is doesn’t change.
Remember you always have a choice what to pursue
I just realized i was bi in eighth grade. I accept your point of view, though it is not my own. There are two kinds: those who want to assimilate into hetero-normative culture and those who don’t.