It may well be the most academic, well spoken people of the world, and in other cases the down and out on the streets, but none of them in gods eyes makes us good in gods eyes, we are all just instruments in his eyes ( later on, may site another well known example from history to illustrate this, an illustration far higher than people like tyndale etc ) that may cultivate humility in us. Female cooks, maid’s etc. If i were to guess, his wife gave him his marching orders. Not having grown up under your parents’ manipulations, as a new daughter- or son-in-law, your spouse may be unwilling to participate in the dysfunction that feels so natural to you. Some of us have shared our narratives. @socalledevildil, oh my, thank you so much! just a few short years ago, no one would have (or should have) said that about me.
You’d take a step back to see what you’ve done wrong and feel remorseful for it. Besides that she also won’t let go of the idea of me having children despite me making it clear for the past 5 years that that won’t be happening. Maybe a lost world.